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A Childhood Abuse Survivor Is Afraid to Close Her Eyes..

26 Mar

Dear Belleruth,

I am working with a woman who is afraid to close her eyes.  The very idea creates extreme anxiety, and therefore I cannot use meditation or guided imagery with her, even though both of us believe it could be very beneficial for her.  Obviously this has to do with her traumatized past, involving childhood sexual abuse.  Any suggestions?

Dr. Jim

Dr. Jim,

Here’s the good news:  she doesn’t have to close her eyes to have a successful experience with guided imagery or meditation.  She can leave them open and just stare at a spot on the wall; or she can close her eyes part way, with her lids at half-mast, so to speak.  This should work fine.

In fact, if she’s a survivor of childhood abuse, she probably moves in and out of the altered state fairly easily, because of the dissociation she had to have slipped into during her traumatic childhood experiences. This makes her an automatic champ at altered state techniques, such as meditation or guided imagery.  She actually has an edge here.  

The trick will be her learning to deploy her dissociative skills at will, and trying guided imagery with you is a great way for her to start doing this.  If you take it a little bit at a time and move at her pace, I think she’ll find it empowering.  But she does need to keep her eyes at least partly open if she’s to feel safe – at least at the beginning.  Leave that up to her, of course.

Good luck with this and let us all know how it’s coming along.

All best,
Belleruth

Belleruth Naparstek

Psychotherapist, author and guided imagery pioneer Belleruth Naparstek is the creator of the popular Health Journeys guided imagery audio series. Her latest book on imagery and posttraumatic stress, Invisible Heroes: Survivors of Trauma and How They Heal (Bantam Dell), won the Spirituality & Health Top 50 Books Award